What do you do with the wrench life throws you?

December 4th, 2009

I love to read!  My love affair with books started back
when I was a small girl on the farm ten miles from town.
Neighbours about a mile away, ones with children anyway,
but only boys.  I do have two brothers who are just a
year older than myself and we had lots of adventures, but you
couldn’t always be playing outside.  So a good book took
us on other adventures in places we had never seen and
probably would never see, or so we thought anyway.

Since I have been working on the computer my reading has
declined to a certain extent.  Any time the opportunity arises
though I grab my book and read a few pages.

One of the books I am reading, I’m afraid I tend to read more
than one at a time, is a book called ‘Biting the Moon’ by Martha
Grimes.  She isn’t one of my favorite authors but I don’t mind
reading her if the book sounds interesting.  She has a way with
words and this book is fairly good though when you really think
about it, it does seem a bit far fetched but then again…

Why I am writing about it is the one part in the book that I think
applies to many of us in how we handle situations in our life.  It
is about two teen-age girls and how they deal with what life has
handed them.  They seem very mature for their age and take life
in their stride maybe better than some adults. Maybe this small
segment of the story will touch some hidden part of you…

“It was as if Andi’s terrible experience had given her life focus.
Most girls would have been paralyzed with fear over what had
happened, but not Andi.  It was as if she had pulled the battered
parts of herself together and was now aimed, like an arrow, at
some destination that neither of them could see but that Mary
was afraid would shoot beyond her, land out of sight.

Yet Mary, who had not been violated, felt her own life to be a
tangle of conflicting needs.  Her sister, Angela, had always talked
about “centering”, finding one’s “center”. Mary felt she had no
center. She was the Scrabble letters spilled across the table,
letters she could not put together to spell anything sensible.  Andi, on the other hand, had mastered the game, as if magnetized, the letters flew together.

Mary envied such singleness of purpose, such determination.
Never to be deflected.  Andi had no doubts about what she was
doing, whereas Mary had nothing but doubts.  Andi might have doubts as to whether she’d succeed – whatever spelled success
for her – but no doubts about whether she should do it.”

Patricia

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Ok, So now I feel like a fool

November 7th, 2009

I am a real newbie when it comes to wordpress and I have been so
busy with other projects that I have neglected writing.  I didn’t
realize anyone would find it and read it.  I have to figure how I can
answer the posts, though maybe that is what I am doing now.  Will
have to see how this is set up.

Anyway, sorry everyone, for not responding to your posts.  Thank
you very much for taking the time to post, even though some were
with question marks.  :)

Ok was looking at the comments and I saw the word ‘reply’,
possibly that is where I reply to the posts. :)
(I will figure it all out eventually)

I am working on my domain, changing the look of it and
I want to add my Nutshells blog.  If I am going to do that
then I had better get writing and investigating the in and outs
of Wordpress.

I do love writing but it takes so much of my time that I put it off.
So maybe if I just write short posts I will get into the habit of
writing more. I will post this and then see about replying to the
comments. I will even try answering the question marks, though
don’t know for sure what they meant.

Actually as I look at the question marks, I see their name is also
a question. I will remove those and if they want to put in a name
and a comment then I will reply.

If you drive too fast down a gravel road you could lose control and
end upside down in the ditch. Living you life in the fast lane
may cause you to crash and burn. Take care of yourself!
Patricia

Life like gravel roads should be travelled with caution.

September 23rd, 2009

My life for the moment is at the end of my gravel road.  It has been an interesting life and very busy.  It has been bumpy at times and smooth most times but never boring.

I have too many things going at one time to be bored.  Some would say I have too many things going at once to get anything done properly and sometimes they would be right.  I think I do my best work when I have a time limit.  Right now I don’t have a time limit and I feel that anything I write is going to be rather boring.  How else am I going to write in my blog if I don’t just sit here and tap on the keys.

I am still trying to figure out how the site works.  I would like to get a different theme for my header and it looks like I will have to go into the  html code to do it.  That will have to be for another day since I have sat here staring at the page for too long as it is.

I have spent most of the day on the computer, did a lot of surfing and was the moderator for a conference.  I have also gone to the garden and dug some potatoes mostly to get away from the computer.  They are very plentiful.  Most people I have talked with about their garden have said their potatoes are quite large.  We have had a different kind of spring and summer this year and I guess the potatoes were quite happy with it even if the people weren’t.

The weather right at the moment seems to be our summer which we didn’t have much of during that season.  Hopefully it stays around long enough for us to get our crop off.  We are stymied right at the moment since we got an inch of rain just before this hot weather.  A friend said there were snow geese already arriving from the far north.  Hopefully they have been fooled because when they come it usually means snow is not far behind.

My gravel road is well travelled and most of the time is quite dusty.  So I guess I should leave this for another time and make like a housewife.  So have a good day and slow down on gravel roads.

This is my NutShell, no squirrels allowed!

July 16th, 2009

Hello, I am Patricia and I have finally made my WordPress Blog.  It has been a long road , in my case a gravel road, to this point in my internet journey.  I have been on the internet for years though I never started looking into a business until about 2003. I have a blog in BlogEstates and one in Adlandpro but this is the first one I have started on my own domain.

I live on a farm in the middle of Canada.  I am married and have three children.  They have all departed home in pursuit of their own lives.  So I am free to a certain extent to pursue other avenues in my life and there are so many I would like to pursue.  My basic problem is staying focused on one at a time.

I do hope that I will have interesting topics so that you will want to read my posts and want to comment.  In my family, my siblings and I always loved a good discussion.  It could get loud sometimes if all seven of us were together but it was never acrimonious.

So if you feel anything I post is controversial,  please post your answers in a ‘I disagree’ way rather than a ‘grrr, you are so st…..’ way.  After all this human life is very short so there is no sense in getting your tail caught in my ‘NutShell’.   It sometimes hurts too much and I’m not into people being hurt.

You may be right and I may be wrong but everyone is entitled to their own opinion.  If you don’t like mine create your own page.

So now that I have started, the toughest job will be to keep posting, you know staying focused!  Watch out for falling nuts!!