Archive for May, 2010

Gardening Between Rains

Monday, May 24th, 2010

Well, I have been out gardening so have not
worked on the next chapter of Harry Lorayne’s
book yet.  Our growing season is fairly short
so have to ‘make hay while the sun shines’ as
the saying goes.

It has been raining a fair amount but I have
managed to get in about 20 rows of corn,
potatoes, beans and peas.  I have also
planted about 15 hills of cucumbers, but do
want to plant more.  Today I transplanted my
cabbage and tomatoes.  Do have more tomatoes
to put in.  It is raining tonight so probably won’t
get them in tomorrow.

The farmers won’t like this rain, they have already
had enough and most of them don’t have their
crops all in yet.  My husband and I have retired
from farming this year though we will still be
living on the farm.  We have rented the land
out to a neighbour for the year so don’t have
that stress to worry about this season.

I will be writing in my blog as yard and garden
allow me.  Hope everyone in the Northern
Hemisphere has a good summer and those
in the Southern Hemisphere hopefully have
a good winter.

Patricia

More about habits

Saturday, May 15th, 2010

Lorayne feels unhappiness is just a bad habit.  He suggests
getting up every morning, look at yourself in the mirror and smile.
Really!  Happiness is a state of mind and if you tell yourself you
are happy it is possible that you will be.  You will also be healthier,
for it has been proven that being in a positive attitude makes you
feel better.

Another thing Harry feels strongly about is making prompt
decisions!  Indecision is a waste of time plus it does cause
unhappiness.  Chapter Seven is where taking action and making
prompt decisions is discussed.

William James (psychologist and philosopher) says, “There is no
more miserable human being than one in whom nothing is habitual
but
indecision!”

Shyness is another reason for unhappiness which can be
overcome by showing an interest in others and doing our
best to make them feel comfortable.  Harry realizes and I’m
sure many of you do as well, that everyone thinks of themselves
and how they look to others.  Shyness causes us to be
uncomfortable, uneasy and self-conscious because we are
worried about what others think of us.

If we make it a habit to think of others and their comfort instead
of our own we won’t have time to think of ourselves.  We are all
the same and have the same kind of thoughts, it is just that many
have worked at being interested in others and don’t seem shy.
Of course there are always people who interest us naturally
without having to work at it.  Plus there are also people who show
too much interest in others, we just have to use common sense.

Patricia

Chapter 10 Strengthening Good Habits – Discarding Bad Ones

Friday, May 14th, 2010

“Habit is either the best of servants, or worst of masters.”
Nathaniel Emmons (American theologian)

Since Harry Lorayne is neither a psychiatrist nor a
psychologist he didn’t think he should get into some
areas of good and bad habits that he would have
preferred to. He does have his own thoughts about
habits that he wanted to share.

Your life would flow along much smoother and easier
if you have acquired good habits. “A man’s fortune has
its form given to it by his habits.”  Lorayne suggests,
“If you can train your self to acquire good habits of health,
recreation, prompt decision-making, learning and work,
you will almost surely form the habit of success and
happiness.”

Now bad habits, that is a different story!  {more…}

Patricia

Chapter 9 -You Can Solve Your Problems –

Saturday, May 8th, 2010

Once You Know What They Are

Dr. John Donnelly wrote: “Every problem of frustration
which is faced realistically and dealt with in an organized
way adds to the strength of the personality.  Every failure
from which a lesson has been learned provides both an
experience and an asset which increases our capacity to
meet new problems
.”

The big problems weren’t mentioned in my last article.
Sometimes it is a lot of small problems that seem like one
big one.  No matter how big the problem is Lorayne says to
look for the heart of the problem. He says to take care of
the problem that is constantly on your mind.  Get rid of that
and you will be one step closer to the main problem.

Looking at the whole picture and dwelling on it can stymie you.
It is good to look at the big picture but when starting to deal with
it you need to look at small parts of it and deal with them one at a
time.  Lorayne suggests that uncertainty , doubt and indecision
are habits we need to get rid of before we can deal with our problems.

Goethe (well-known author) put it this way,”Do the duty that
lies nearest thee, thy next duty will then become clearer
.”

Lorayne deals with the objections concerning lack of money,
poor health and physical handicaps.  He suggests that realizing that
others are worse off than we are helps temporarily but doesn’t fix our
problems.  He suggests, “that one way to make ends meet is to get
off your own
!”

Most of us have to..<more>

Increase Your Vocabulary

Friday, May 7th, 2010

Lorayne feels we are less likely to fall for certain
ideas or sales pitches if we increase our vocabulary.
He feels an increased vocabulary means greater
mind power‘.  He says that when we think, we are
talking to ourselves.  When we think we produce
pictures in our mind and talk to ourselves about
those pictures.

Scientists have proven that our lips and larynx move
with our thoughts.

Lorayne believes that the more words we are familiar
with the easier it will be for us to think accurately.
Make the effort to look up words that you hear or
read to enlarge your vocabulary and thus improve
your thinking. Reading can expand your mind if you
are selective with your reading material.

Lorayne jokes, ” If you are going to talk to yourself,
you might as well make it an intelligent conversation!”

In his book he suggests different ways to exercise your
mind. Reading, of course, but also he lists different
problem solving activities, such as; crossword puzzles,
cryptograms or as I stated in the last article his ’solvems’.
The one example I gave was about ‘John’ who couldn’t
sleep in his hotel room.

Here is another one:
Cleo is lying dead on the living room carpet. She is
surrounded by broken glass and water. Tom is asleep
in the bedroom. Why?

The answer to this one is kind of silly; but it still takes
some thinking to latch on to it: Cleo is a goldfish; the
broken glass and water are her former home — the
fish tank. Tom is a cat who knocked the whole thing
over! That’s all.

Now that one I will make my own observation:  To me
Cleo would not be lying on the carpet. Tom maybe would
be sleeping but not until after he ate Cleo!

Lorayne also gives some examples of cryptograms and
then goes on to what he calls a ‘brain twister’ to set your
thinking straight’:

You’re lost in a forest which is inhabited by Red men and
Green men only. The Red men always tell the truth; the
Green men always lie. You come to a fork in the road;  you
have to get to a town called “Umgowa,” but you don’t know
whether to take the right or left road. There is a man standing
at the fork, but it is too dark to see if he’s Red or Green.

The twister is this:  Can you ask just one question of this man,
which calls for a “yes” or “no” answer, and find out which is the
correct road to take?..<more>

Patricia

Chapter 8 – Multiply Your Output

Sunday, May 2nd, 2010

By the Habit of Concentration

As car manufacturers need to streamline their vehicles
to cut down resistance we need to streamline our minds.
Harry Lorayne believes we need to get rid of resistance
to get to the heart of a problem by the art of concentration.
Concentration is an art that has to be learned.

The dictionary says that concentration is:  exclusive
attention on one object.  Believe it or not, it is not easy to
concentrate on one thing for any length of time.  It takes
practice and Lorayne says that if you want to get rid of
a bad habit, replace it with the habit of concentration.

Exclusive attention: No other thought, no matter how trivial,
can be…{more}