Archive for June, 2010

Curiosity Can Also Lead You to Success

Saturday, June 19th, 2010

Chapter 12 of Harry Lorayne’s book on Mind Power

Have you read the first eleven chapters regarding
Harry Lorayne’s book on ‘Mind Power’? Have you
been curious enough to want to expand your mind
to see how successful you can really be?

Harry Lorayne obviously is a man who has done that.
This chapter is about being curious and his not
understanding others who don’t want to know the
“why” and “how” of new things.

He does not believe that “ignorance is bliss” as the
saying goes. He thinks that a person’s greatest
asset is a ‘sense of humour‘ and a ‘healthy curiosity‘.
Believing that curiosity may kill a cat but with people he
feels what it kills is ignorance.

He feels that those who aren’t curious about anything
go through life; “in a straight line, like a race horse
with blinkers on; not caring about or seeing anything
but their own little pleasures, frustrations and problems.”
He doesn’t think these people come up with a ‘worthwhile
idea
or do anything of interest’.

Curiosity and interest are one and the same and without
either, Lorayne feels a person must be awfully bored. He
says, “the one universal cure-all for boredom is the search
for knowledge
.”

He figures the American educator Nicholas Murray Butler
was talking of such people when he said, “The tombstones
of a great many people should read: Died at 30; buried at
60
.”

In condensing what Harry Lorayne has written, people may
be rich or poor but if they see things only with their eyes
and not their minds they will become bored. Plus those
who aren’t quite bored yet but soon will be because they
take ‘the path of least resistance‘. Not bothering to take
the time to figure out what they don’t understand.

If you still need convincing that to be successful you do
need to be curious, continue reading <here>

Being at the end of a gravel road

Thursday, June 10th, 2010

should not be a burden at all unless…

Unless it has rained almost continuously off and
on for the last two months .

Back in February and April we had a lot of fog.
There is an old saying that if you get fog,
ninety days later you will get moisture of some
kind.

Well one of my neighbours kept track of the days
we got rain.  The ninety day theory seems to
be true for we have had much too much rain this
spring.  Though she says it should have ended
a day or two ago, but maybe she missed a day
or two of fog.  The rain should be finished in a
couple of days though, hopefully.

The weather man says it will be a beautiful day
on Sunday for the first football game of the year.
But they usually say that if there is going to be a
game.  Wouldn’t want fans to be discouraged,
would they?  I hope he is right since my son and
his girlfriend are going to the game, though it
probably wouldn’t bother him that much.  Well,
I guess it would depend on how much it rained.

Sorry, got off on the wrong track, was suppose
to be discussing the gravel road track.  Basically
that is what it becomes, a track.  When the rain
first starts, the road is slippery from the clay
base.  The more it rains and the more people
drive on it, it becomes a track or I should say a
rut.

If you don’t want to get stuck or end up in the ditch
you have to stay in the track.  Sometimes that track
is full of water, and it usually ends up all over your
vehicle, right across your windshield.  You continuously
have to have your windshield wipers on and if you
didn’t keep your washer tank full you would have
a hard time seeing.

Most farmers this spring have gone around with a tan
vehicle no matter the real colour.  There isn’t much
sense in getting it washed either because you still
have to go back over the road to get home.

So, with most days raining and farmers driving on the
roads most days, that rut gets deeper and deeper.  If
you only have a car then forget about getting out, you
would be hung up the first few yards you traveled.  The
last steady rain nearly stopped even the trucks from
navigating the road.  If you didn’t have a 4×4 then you
could forget going anywhere.  The ruts were so deep
they were close to touching the underside of the truck
and then with water in them you needed all four wheels
to keep going.

I have to say though, that it does dry up every once in
a while and the maintainer gets to go down the road
and fill in those ruts.  It has become a weekly job for
him though, don’t know if he likes the challenge or if
he is looking forward to just regular leveling and gravel
dispersion.

I know the farmers have had enough for a very long
time.  They are getting very worried for they haven’t
been able to plant their crops.  We have a short
growing season here, so if the crops aren’t in by
the first week in June if not sooner then they might
as well forget about planting.  If they do plant then
there is a very good chance of it being frozen before
it ripens.

So as much as I like my gravel road, since it is harder
to travel on a muddy dirt road, this year has been quite
an experience.  There are always good sides to most
experiences though, I haven’t had the dust coming into
my house that usually comes from all the big trucks
going by.  We are the only ones that travel on the road
by our house because going on past our driveway is a
dirt road.  Plus it doesn’t get rutted up like the main one
that we have  to travel on to get to the highway.

In a few months  it may be so hot we will  be hoping
for rain, but that is life.  Oh well….

Patricia

Please don’t do this to your child

Monday, June 7th, 2010

“The father had placed his young son on top of the
bookcase, and was urging the youngster to jump
down into his arms.  The boy hesitated; he was
frightened.
‘Come on, son, jump!  I’m here to catch you.’
Still the boy whimpered and hesitated.
‘Now look, I’m your father.  I’m telling you to jump.
I’ll catch you.’
Finally, the boy closed his eyes and jumped.  The
father didn’t catch him, and he hit the floor with a thud.
He looked up at his father with tears of pain in his eyes.
And the father said, ‘There, that’ll teach you never to
trust anybody!’

Any person who would do such a thing to a child, should
have their child taken away from them.  To scar a child like
that is inhumane in my opinion.  Who can a child trust if
they can’t trust their parents!  I don’t know if this was a
true story or not but I would not be surprised that similar
occurrences have happened.

The story was the opening paragraph of Harry Lorayne’s
eleventh chapter of his book, ‘Secrets of Mind Power’.

Now to go to the rest of the chapter in Harry Lorayne’s
book on ‘Mind Power‘ does seem anti-climatic and unrelated
to that disturbing story.  The chapter though is about trusting
people and I can sure see where someone would grow up
trusting no one after that treatment.

Hopefully anyone who had an abusive parent as that
father‘ would meet others who could assure that person
that all people aren’t like that ‘father‘. Whether you think so
or not, that is abusive behaviour, a child’s feelings are
very fragile.  They remember actions such as those
for the rest of their life.

Patricia

You must Trust Others – If You want to Succeed

Monday, June 7th, 2010

When I first read the start of this chapter I was
appalled!  Reading it again I am no less appalled,
anyone who would do such a thing to a child, does
not deserve to have children! <Go here>

Continuing with the rest of the chapter in Harry Lorayne’s
book on ‘Secrets of Mind Power‘ :
This chapter is about trusting people and I can sure see
where someone would grow up trusting no one after that
treatment.

Lorayne talks of not liking books that have no ‘meat’ or as
he says are “‘blue sky’ – nice and flowery”.  He gives an
example of books that just, “preach, ‘Have faith‘; faith in
God or faith in yourself.”  He didn’t write this to argue about
religion for he knows everyone has their own beliefs.  He
feels ‘90 per cent’ of those who read faith books know the
value of and believe ‘that faith in God is almost a necessity
for a happy life’.

He feels though that ‘God might prefer you to take care of
some of your own problems’.  He doesn’t think God expects
Him to solve all our problems, and not doing anything for
ourselves.  Which reminds me of the story of the man who
was stuck in a tree during a flood.  A boat comes by to
rescue him and he says, ‘no thanks, I’m waiting for God to
rescue me.’ More people try to rescue him, even a
helicopter, and he continues to say no, ‘he is waiting on
God’.  Having faith in God is recognizing when He is
helping you and not expecting some ‘beam me up Scotty’
rescue solution.

Lorayne states that after all we do have a brain which
we are suppose to use to think for ourselves.  He thinks
God had an ulterior motive when He gave us a brain; to
relieve some of His burden.  I don’t think I agree with that.
I think God’s only burden…