Posts Tagged ‘interest’

Curiosity Can Also Lead You to Success

Saturday, June 19th, 2010

Chapter 12 of Harry Lorayne’s book on Mind Power

Have you read the first eleven chapters regarding
Harry Lorayne’s book on ‘Mind Power’? Have you
been curious enough to want to expand your mind
to see how successful you can really be?

Harry Lorayne obviously is a man who has done that.
This chapter is about being curious and his not
understanding others who don’t want to know the
“why” and “how” of new things.

He does not believe that “ignorance is bliss” as the
saying goes. He thinks that a person’s greatest
asset is a ‘sense of humour‘ and a ‘healthy curiosity‘.
Believing that curiosity may kill a cat but with people he
feels what it kills is ignorance.

He feels that those who aren’t curious about anything
go through life; “in a straight line, like a race horse
with blinkers on; not caring about or seeing anything
but their own little pleasures, frustrations and problems.”
He doesn’t think these people come up with a ‘worthwhile
idea
or do anything of interest’.

Curiosity and interest are one and the same and without
either, Lorayne feels a person must be awfully bored. He
says, “the one universal cure-all for boredom is the search
for knowledge
.”

He figures the American educator Nicholas Murray Butler
was talking of such people when he said, “The tombstones
of a great many people should read: Died at 30; buried at
60
.”

In condensing what Harry Lorayne has written, people may
be rich or poor but if they see things only with their eyes
and not their minds they will become bored. Plus those
who aren’t quite bored yet but soon will be because they
take ‘the path of least resistance‘. Not bothering to take
the time to figure out what they don’t understand.

If you still need convincing that to be successful you do
need to be curious, continue reading <here>

More about habits

Saturday, May 15th, 2010

Lorayne feels unhappiness is just a bad habit.  He suggests
getting up every morning, look at yourself in the mirror and smile.
Really!  Happiness is a state of mind and if you tell yourself you
are happy it is possible that you will be.  You will also be healthier,
for it has been proven that being in a positive attitude makes you
feel better.

Another thing Harry feels strongly about is making prompt
decisions!  Indecision is a waste of time plus it does cause
unhappiness.  Chapter Seven is where taking action and making
prompt decisions is discussed.

William James (psychologist and philosopher) says, “There is no
more miserable human being than one in whom nothing is habitual
but
indecision!”

Shyness is another reason for unhappiness which can be
overcome by showing an interest in others and doing our
best to make them feel comfortable.  Harry realizes and I’m
sure many of you do as well, that everyone thinks of themselves
and how they look to others.  Shyness causes us to be
uncomfortable, uneasy and self-conscious because we are
worried about what others think of us.

If we make it a habit to think of others and their comfort instead
of our own we won’t have time to think of ourselves.  We are all
the same and have the same kind of thoughts, it is just that many
have worked at being interested in others and don’t seem shy.
Of course there are always people who interest us naturally
without having to work at it.  Plus there are also people who show
too much interest in others, we just have to use common sense.

Patricia

Think Effectively – Chapter Four

Monday, March 22nd, 2010

Thinking is the hardest work there is, which is the probable reason why so few engage in it.‘ -  Henry Ford

To Think:

1). Turn over in the mind; meditate; ponder; reason; to give continued thought to, as in order to reach a  decision; to
understand or solve;
2). to bear in mind, recollect or remember;
3). to anticipate or expect.

Lorayne’s comprehensive reasoning of what thinking is:
- “Thinking in the present….”